Looking to the Future

I stood on tiptoe to see the future,
But a haze blurred my sight;
I rubbed my eyes, exclaimed my sighs,
As the cloudy sky dissolved into night.

“Lord, this is confusing! I wish it were clear!
At least I am certain that You are here.”

I raised my hands to God in surrender
My lips formed a grateful smile,
My Father knows, and He knows best
This must be to grow my faith all the while.

“Father, show me what to do —and when and how;
Empower me to trust and obey You now.”

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

Photo by Joy Hardt ©2003, Africa

The Gift of Christmas

Of all the gifts that could be given,
Of all surprises that would please,
The world cannot fully know
The gift of Christmas.

Of all the music of instruments and voices,
The decorations of all color and glitter,
Such extravagance to show,
We lack the fullness of Christmas.

God gave His Son, astounding
Display of awesome love,
His forgiveness to bestow
On that first Christmas.

God gave you breath and heartbeat;
Did you thank Him for life?
The gift of gratitude you owe,
Can you speak of it at Christmas?

His love, and your love in return,
Expressing eternal truth,
Surpassing sky above and earth below,
Vastly bigger than vain imaginations.

True celebrations begin within,
Welling up, surpassing emotions;
Reverence starts to grow.
His presence can be your present at Christmas.

All too soon, the holiday is gone.
We need to linger on in His presence,
Before trivia ensnares us so;
Jesus is God’s gift of Christmas.

By Elaine Hardt ©2008

Winter's Mystery and Delight

When winter’s snow comes dancing down
A frosty cold claims woods and town.
Where winter holds us in embrace
Be thankful for this peaceful place.

When winter’s morn dawns muted gray
Here and there are birds at play.
They hop about and seem to say,
Will the children come today?

When winter’s noon shows turquoise sky
The snowdrifts melt with liquid sigh.
When shadows lengthen it’s time we go
To warm ourselves by fire’s glow.

When winter’s eve brings blowing storm
All God’s creatures must stay warm.
The night holds secrets like a dream,
In stalwart woods and frozen stream.

When winter’s scene you cannot find
Look within your childhood’s mind;
There reminisce the days of yore,
Such mystery, delight once more.

By Elaine Hardt ©2002
photo by Carlene or Peter Hardt ©2004

Before You're Snowed Under

Before you’re snowed under
with winter holidays
give yourself the gift
of contemplation.

A quiet heart can
be the doorway to a blessing
that you need,
and that you want.

Suggestion for meditation:
Psalm 148
John 3
Romans 8
Ephesians 1

by Elaine Hardt ©2006
photo by Peter Hardt ©2008

Relief From Winter's Assault

In the midst of artificial holiday cheer
avoid deep drifts of aggravation,
the freeze of frustration,
slippery confusion.

There's relief for weary travelers;
Your Father invites you to come.
The Cross road is the way
And His love is the Son.

More than shelter from winter's assault
Faith conquers life's trials;
Walk in confidence, sing for joy,
Jesus Christ is real.

by Elaine Hardt ©1990
photo by Carlene Hardt ©2006

An Overdose of Christmas?

Brace yourself, it’s time to get ready for the annual assault on pocketbook and stomach and imagination.

We are talking mega-stress, here. Colorful magazines and holiday decorated stores have already filled us with guilt to spur us on to action. It’s time for the latest chapter in conspicuous consumption. But that’s not the worst of it. The real problem with Christmas is an overdose of fantasy.

Christmas is real, and yet Christmas is fantasy. Do our children know the difference?

Talking snowmen, the story of the drummer boy, the littlest angel, the shepherd who brings a lamb, the grinch, the elf with frostbitten toes, talking ornaments, Santa by all his various names . . . on and on goes the list of Christmas phonies.

For Christians the reality of Christmas is so wonderful, so great, so important that it would be a terrible thing to misplace God’s true message for substitutions that tickle our imaginations and entertain us for a few weeks.

The simple and powerful account of Christmas, God with us, has become a tiny speck in a sea of hurry-scurry days that begin in early November. By the time January 2 rolls around we’ve had an excess of holiday, an overdose on fantasy.

Too much about Christmas is artificial. Blinking lights on houses get more attention than the gorgeous full moon in a black velvet sky. Tinsel, plastic trees, flimsy yet flashy decorations are everywhere.

Time for a reality-check.

Our children need to hear from us that the Bible is true and reliable. What it says is no fairy tale. God did send His Son. Jesus came from Heaven and was born as a baby, lived and grew up to die on the cross for our sins. Heaven is a real place and we will go there if we have accepted Jesus as our Savior. We won’t go there by “being good” and by being sincere. According to God’s covenant our sins had to be paid for by a blood offering, and Jesus was that one and only perfect offering.

Discuss what is real.

We don’t need to add imaginary appendages to the real thing. We have true accounts from the Bible of God doing awesome things, of people who were challenged to do outstanding things. We’ve allowed our Bible “stories” to become just that — a flannelgraph tale that glosses over the stark reality of real people in real life who heard from God and obeyed, or disobeyed.

In our homes we need to make these Bible accounts come to life. Make use of a globe, maps, time line, pictures. Discover more about the Jewish culture; how did they live in the New Testament times? Let our young people experience the truth of the Scripture as it was understood “then” and as it applies to our lives now.

Beware the Christmas impostors!

Don’t let our children become captivated by fiction. The truth of God is far more exciting, and eternity is far more important than entertainment.

Get an early start on Christmas this year. Have a family meeting and talk about these important issues.

The stress of the holidays can melt away when we’ve made a new beginning. Let’s clearly label what is real and what is fantasy. There is no better gift for our families than for each of us to know Jesus as Lord and Savior. + + +

by Elaine Hardt ©1996

Every Day is Special

Each day of every year
Is unique in exceptional way,
Let us pause to be thankful
And hear what the little things say.

The littlest flower, the tiniest bug,
Designed for living, engineered to cope;
Atoms and particles created,
Not coincidence, and more than hope!

Small details quietly come together;
It takes a thoughtful eye to see,
that God who does large wonders
Also does microscopically.

The gleaming, twinkling stars above
Drawing our eyes to the sky,
Fill our hearts with wonder
The night we hear a baby’s cry.

God became man upon earth,
Jesus fulfilling God’s plan,
Showing amazing love for
The restless human clan.

We remember with gratitude
Thanksgiving, Christmas, all
Reasons for celebration
Who respond to our Lord’s call.

By Elaine Hardt ©2006
photo by Joy Hardt ©2003

What's Your View of Life?

Bad times, hard times? “Just trust in God;
He will bring you through.”
But Life’s more than a simple slogan,
More for you to prepare and do.

Yes, He gave manna to His people,
And He provides for each little bird,
But He is growing you up;
There’s a battle; you have heard.

Plan, learn, strategize and work
To survive, succeed; yes, pray,
But you demonstrate your trust in God
When you get busy and obey.

By Elaine Hardt ©2008

Change that IS Coming

An uncanny similarity emerges from a thoughtful look at current situations. You might make connections sooner than I did. The evening news triggered the first idea.

Let me set the stage for this drama from the past that fits today’s news. Walk with me patiently. I think you’ll find some fascinating possibilities. What happened so long ago can both inspire — and warn — you and me.

“Change” was the keyword on the banners that went up around town. Smiling faces on posters depicted happiness. “Your life can be better.” Who wouldn’t be drawn to such a positive message. It was the talk of the town.

In an atmosphere such as this the person we’re considering applied for a position. It meant some personal changes, but the future looked bright. To be accepted for the training position was, in itself, an honor.

At the head of this country the man at the top made a dashing figure. He had power and prestige. That he employed ruthless ways had gradually become acknowledged as necessary, given the world circumstances.

Citizens quickly learned their civic lessons. Less complaining was the way to avoid attention. No one wanted to be singled out as unpatriotic, at least not in times like these.

Like a screw being twisted into a set position, there became less and less freedom for those chosen for training and advancement. Seriousness pointed to a future of both honor and danger. Our main character steadily advanced, then was chosen for a very high position, next to the ruler himself.

However, unknown to our main character deadly plans were underway by an enemy who had gained acceptance into the leadership circles. Was it carelessness that allowed our person to feel secure?

Don’t reveal all you know, but make it a priority to learn more. Don’t neglect small clues as they mount up. Don’t show your hand until the time is right. Sensible slogans, even then.

Adding to the intrigue was the fact that this main character was a believer in one God, the Creator of Heaven and Earth. He was to be honored, revered, and His law obeyed. Prayer was vital.

Suddenly, the shocking news burst out. Death would be the fate of all who did not meet the ruler’s pronouncement. Our person of interest had only one other person whose advice could be even considered. Thankfully, that advice was given and accepted.

With a calmness that only God can give, our person stood staunchly, and as the historical account concludes, said and did the right things, to the right people at the right time. It indeed was for such a time as this.

You and I are also outnumbered in our country. Change has been decreed by the top elected official and the leadership of the nation. And change will come quickly, because the experts have decided what is good for us.

Politics has taken over the media, sweeping inside its whirlpool any people who have no mooring in spiritual truth. If you and I are not careful we will be lulled into an excitement that pulls us away from the Lord.

Logically, our freedoms do need to be sacrificed temporarily. Or, so it seems. Christians with a Biblical world view must remain alert to the growing dangers. Some will die for their faith. But, the threats that advance towards us may actually bring a unique opportunity.

There is a time to speak up, proclaim the truth. There is a time to reveal what the Bible says, what prophecy has announced. It’s time for an end, and it is a time for a beginning.

If you’ve discovered the similarities between the account of Esther in the Bible (in ten short chapters) and the times we could possibly face in our country, the reasoning of my conclusion should also be evident.

We are challenged to serious preparation, serious faith and trust in God. Jesus is our Lord and Savior; the Holy Spirit empowers us. As a result of our obedient response to Him, many will be saved. What Satan means for our death warrant can be mightily used as testimony. God will get the glory. He did put us in an earthly “kingdom” to be a unique people, for such a time as this.

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

The Seen and the Unseen of YOU

A mirror pretends
To tell the truth,
But so much more is hidden
Than the eye can see.
Oh, to look within the body;
What miracles lie beneath the skin?

Miniature factories,
Uniquely different, with input and output,
Busily working without vacation,
Intricately energized, communicating,
Designed for growth and survival;
Yes, God’s engineering is amazing:
The miracle of the inside of you.

Now ponder inside the unseen of you,
An invisible teammate,
More than an imagined accessory,
The life essence, spirit, gift of God,
Unseen, but intertwined with soul,
Allows the marvel of you
To ponder the meaning of life.

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

Happy to Be Here

By Elaine Hardt ©2008
Photo by Joy Hardt ©2003

Contentment in the midst of a demanding, busy schedule seems impossible. Circumstances may have intervened to disrupt a pleasant and successful lifestyle. Some people might not be able to say, “I’m happy to be here.” You might be one of them.

To be happy —right now, right here— would include such facets as physical location, emotional level, social interaction, and spiritual well-being. Give yourself a quick check-up.

1. Physical location. If you have a peaceful acceptance of where you are living, where you are working, then that is a positive plus.

Consider Mary and Joseph. He was a carpenter in Nazareth, but they had to go to Bethlehem for the census. Some Bible scholars suggest that Joseph and Mary and baby Jesus might have lived there for some months. When Joseph was warned to escape to Egypt it was another change of location, but that brought them safety and contentment, as long as they knew that’s where God wanted them to be. (Matthew 2)

2. Emotional level. If you are happy, even in the midst of unsettled situations and with an uncertain future looming ahead, then you’re learning to trust the Lord. If you know God is with you, His promises are true, and your eternal future is secure in Him, then you can tame your misbehaving emotions with little reminders.

Picture young Daniel, captured by a foreign government and taken to that location. Does he stew, fuss, complain to everyone, or quietly go ahead? He did speak up about eating the king’s unhealthy foods, and they gave him slack. Soon we read that he was considered one of the kingdom’s “wise men,” and he rose to prominence. He must have been stable in his emotions because he knew that was where God wanted him to be, at that time. (Daniel 1)

3. Social Interaction. If your dealings with some other person or people is on the ragged edge this is the time to take a step back and quietly analyze what’s going on. If they’re not going to change, then can you change? This is obviously a matter for prayer; it may be a nudge to a thoughtful new outlook.

For one example, look at young Isaac walking up the mountain, carrying a load of firewood. His father walks alongside, and they talk. Not every young person interacts so calmly with their parents. Startlingly, Isaac is going to be offered to God on an altar, but at the last moment God calls it off, and father and son must have had an interesting conversation on the walk back. (Genesis 22)

4. Spiritual well-being. If you feel a little uneasy about your walk with the Lord be thankful that He is bringing some issue to your attention. Take time out for a personal talk with Him. Don’t expect to flip your Bible open and point your finger at random to a verse and let that be your guidance system. Read a chapter now, plan to continue reading tomorrow. What example or admonition is God showing you here?

Consider Jesus, praying alone in the garden at night. He cries out to God, asking if there’s any other way, but then yields, “Thy will be done.” He had God’s peace about it. (Matthew 26)

Does this mean putting on an artificial smile, ignoring what’s going on, being tolerant with everyone and everything? No. Jesus did not tell His disciples to be careless. Among His final words He commanded them to go, make disciples, baptize and teach. (Matthew 28). How could these men who had never been to college or seminary possibly undertake such a huge task? Jesus assured them, “Surely I am with you always,” and “You will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you.” (Acts 1)

If here is where the Lord wants you to be, then you have the best reason to be happy. You don’t have to figure it out, tough it out, and pretend to be happy. Even without a big grin you can have a satisfying happiness in your heart, knowing Who He is and what He has said. He wants you to trust and obey, not to earn your salvation, but to grow into greater maturity.

Learning how to be genuinely happy here and now takes a love relationship with the Lord and a trusting heart. His peace will be with you! + + +

Happy — Here? Now? Is It Possible?

Me?
Happy to be here,
right now, this time, this place?
Stand tall with confidence,
full of God’s grace?

Circumstances, lingering memories of the past,
Bad news, a frightening scene with a suspicious cast;
Work harder, concentrate more, tell myself a lie?
Success would come if I knew how to try?

Or, plunge into entertainment, relax, unwind?
I’ll not be satisfied until peace I can find.
Somehow I know I cannot avoid responsibility,
I must not rely on my feelings impulsively.

Dear Lord, I will turn to Your Word to see
Spiritual truth to set my questioning heart free;
Life is too short for confusion, depression, anger, fear,
Faithfully, God reveals His Son, and says He is near.

When I really believe, when I really can know
That God’s power is sufficient, it will show;
He wants me to obey, He helps me to trust,
So be happy, I will,
and be happy, I must!

By Elaine Hardt ©2008
Photo by Joy Hardt ©2003

The Driver's Prayer

by Elaine Hardt ©2001

Louise phoned to say she got another ding on her car, an ‘81 Chevvie. Our friend had parked at Uptown Plaza to go into A.J.’s Fine Foods for a bottle of her favorite olive oil. When she walked back there was the crease in the driver’s door, and no car was parked beside hers.

“I just said, ‘Lord, what about this?’ and it seemed like He was saying to me, ‘Well, Louise, you weren’t hurt, were you?’ Then I realized that I got what I had prayed for— my safety.”

Her soft southern voice still echoes in my ears. Louise has been God’s child for nearly 70 years and loves to share about her walk with Him. She wasn’t complaining about Him; she was excited about her new understanding about prayer.

“Now, before I get going I pray to have no accidents, no incidents, no tickets and no trouble,” she informed my husband, Don, and me. “And, He’s taken care of it. No more scrapes and dings on Old Faithful. I believe He wants us to pray more specifically.”

For years Don and I had prayed general prayers in the morning before starting off on our day. Now, spurred on by Louise’s example we decided to be more specific. These days when we back out of the garage and wait while the garage door comes down one or the other of us prays for our protection. It’s short and to the point.

Prayer, to us, is not mere formality. We both have a personal relationship with the Lord. All during the day there are many little opportunities to whisper a prayer to our Best Friend. But we are learning to pray more specifically, so we can tell when the prayer is answered.

We’re not just concerned about ourselves. This prayer asks for protection for everyone around us, so we don’t even see an accident. And, that’s how it’s been, ever since Louise shared with us.

Years ago we dedicated ourselves, our house, and all of our “stuff” to the Lord. That includes our car and pickup. Now, when we pray it reminds us to be thankful for all of His blessings.
For all who drive we share our little prayer. But more than that, we recommend our Best Friend.

The Driver’s Prayer
Father, I claim Your total protection
as I go out today.
No accidents, no incidents —
no tickets, no trouble—
not even see an accident.
No delays on the way, a safe trip all the way
over and back.
Post Your angels around this vehicle
while I drive and while it’s parked.
In everything I do let me bring praise to You.
Thanks for taking care of me.
AMEN.
+ + +


“And call upon Me in the day of trouble:
I will deliver thee,
and thou shalt glorify Me,”
Psalm 50:15.


“Henceforth I call you not servants; for the
servant knoweth not what his lord doeth:
but I have called you friends;
for all things that I have heard of my Father
I have made known unto you.”
John 15:15.

+ + +

Here Comes Tomorrow!

Today was unimaginable when we were small,
Then, the future seemed so far away;
Little did we know how quickly it would go,
The promptly disappearing day.

You recall how we youngsters longed to be grown,
But here, at this age no one wants to get old;
We rushed through a lot of living then,
Determined and eager to be rich and smart and bold.

Now with seasoned perspective we live our days,
Yet some eye the future with suspicious frown;
Sometimes insecure, amidst so many changes,
Carefully cautious when they’re feeling down.

So, pause for a moment, take time to consider
You’ve already survived challenge and sorrow;
Turn from complaining, plan for adventure,
God loves you, and here comes tomorrow.

Review the important lessons you’re learning,
Treasure the gift of life you’ve been given,
With renewed faith and prayer to the Lord
Tomorrow means one day closer to Heaven.

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

My God and I Walk Through Today, Together

My God and I walk through today, together;
He sees and hears all that I say and do.
When problems mount I’m glad He’s my companion;
His wisdom, power is strong to bring me through.

My God and I commute to work together;
I drive the car, He’s with me on the ride.
We talk and sing, our hearts embrace each other;
Stress has to leave with Jesus by my side.

My God and I live in my home together;
I do the chores with Heaven on my mind.
He gives me thoughts to brighten every corner;
Frustration goes, His happiness I find.

My God and I deal with the kids together;
His grace empowers us to live in peace.
We read His Word, He opens up the meaning;
We learn to love forgiveness’ sweet release.

My God and I, with family together
Find help for every struggle’s pain and fear.
He heals and touches all the broken pieces;
I cannot fail since Jesus Christ is here.

My God and I will always be together;
When life’s last breath is taken I will leave.
Earth’s days were only but a moment’s journey;
Heaven’s joy awaits, my Savior I will see.

Dear Lord, I’ll love and worship You forever;
Please keep my heart safe in Your arms of love.
I want to live to bring You praise and glory,
To echo back the angels’ songs above.

by Elaine Hardt ©1996
To the tune: My God and I, by I. B. Sergei
(Austris A. Wihtol) ©1970 by Singspiration, Inc.

Could Christmas Be Coming?

Could Christmas be coming? we asked ourselves,
Now we're viewing stores' decorated trees;
Then at home, glancing at the calendar,
Sure enough, it’s the last of September,
First of October, soon will be November.

Christians, it’s time to prepare your heart;
Postpone buying and decorating, please!
Avoid the rush, sit down and talk with the Lord;
Invite Him to set your priorities,
It’s really Him you want to please!

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

Dishing Up Dessert

A company meal is relaxed in our home. There are several reasons why.

Tonight the main dish of meat, potatoes and gravy huddles together in a deep skillet on the stove. A chilled vegetable medley has been placed on the kitchen counter near a small pitcher of rancho dressing. Later it’s time for dessert. Emerging from the refrigerator to share the counter top is a big bowl of fresh sliced peaches, a carton of thawed fluffy whipped cream and a plate of shortcakes.

I arrange one helping on a dessert plate and hand it across the table to my husband, Don. Then he announces another “rule” to our guests. Each person must get up and dish his or her own dessert. Seconds are allowed, too.

Most meals for company are done the same way. After giving thanks to the Lord for the day, the food, and friends who have come for a meal Don relates the rules.

Everyone smiles as he says, “#1. Help yourself because if you don’t you won’t get anything. #2. Your mother isn’t here so you don’t have to clear your plate. #3. If you don’t see it, ask for it.”

Many menus fit this scheme very well. Hawaiian haystacks and Mexican chalupe are both favorites since the ingredients can be lined up on the counter for each person to assemble their own dinner plate full.

It’s fun, nourishing, and it’s relaxed, just the way going to church should be.

A church service is a lot like a company meal. It’s organized, but not rigid. The preparation has been done, a variety of “food” has been set out, and those who come may help themselves. What appeals to Sister Brown may not be on Junior Jones’ diet this week. If you note something is missing, ask. Eat and enjoy.

There are Bible study classes with homework, probably a newbie class jumping with questions and searching for answers.

There’s music from the latest to the oldies, shared stories of how God answered prayer last week, even the announcements are sometimes “meaty.” The speaker of the day offers a challenge: Jesus wants to be your best friend.

The gathering of believers welcomes those searching for faith. There’s time for smiles and tears, solemnity and joy, challenge and comfort.

We should go to church ready to be fed. God’s Word has something you need and want, truth that will give life to the wounded heart and strengthen a weary soul.

We should go to church expecting a blessing. Look, listen. Follow along in your Bible. Jot down notes. Re-read them later, prayerfully.

How about you? What piques your curiosity, stirs your senses, appeals to your appetite? Go ahead, and try something new. The cooks are pleased to see a hungry person dig in and help themselves.

Dishing up dessert can be fun!

by Elaine Hardt ©2007

The Small, Empty Cup

So like this little cup I am,
I wonder why I’m here;
My Father knows, so I’ll ask Him,
For He is very near.

“This cup is empty, this cup is small;
What have you planned for me?
How can I be a blessing
When this is all I see?”

“Start where you are, with what you’ve got,”
I thought I heard His voice
“You’ll overflow with blessings
so trust Me and rejoice.”

by Elaine Hardt ©2005

My Suggestion for You

Of course, you are busy, but I wouldn’t ask you to do something unimportant. I recommend you take maybe 15 minutes to write down the story of your experience of coming to faith.

Coming to faith is a life-changing event. It happened to me, and I am forever thankful.

As little kids Mama taught us the song, “Jesus Loves Me,” and I believed it was true. In those days we said a bedtime prayer, “Now I lay me down to sleep; I pray the Lord my soul to keep. If I should die before I wake, I pray the Lord my soul to take.” Then came the “God bless mamma and daddy. . . ” Next, each sibling was named, along with friends. We believed prayer was important.

Our family moved at different times, so we weren’t settled into church membership. There was a Friends church in Marshalltown, then a Baptist church, later the First Federated church in Des Moines where Aunt Marian and Uncle Bob were active. This is where I got to go to Vacation Bible school and made the shiny brown-painted plaster plaque I still have of the Last Supper. I liked to go to the “big church” instead of Sunday School.

We children listened to a weekly Back to the Bible radio program, and once got a free booklet from them. The first Bible verse I memorized was John 3:16, “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life.”

One Sunday evening the pastor in Des Moines preached a strong sermon on Hebrews 2:3, “How shall we escape if we neglect so great a salvation.” He told about Jesus, dying on the cross, and being raised from the dead. I already knew that Jesus loved me, but I was too timid to go forward in front of all those grown ups.

Later at home by myself I told God, “In case I didn’t ask you the right way before I am asking you into my heart now.” I was 12 years old. I knew I was Born Again.

Belonging to Jesus kept me out of a lot of trouble growing up. I was the oldest of 8 children and was busy being a good student and helping mom. By that time my parents moved to Arizona. At Glendale High School the Christians met out on the grass under the old olive trees on campus at noon for singing and sharing and prayer. After graduating I met Don, and next May we were married at American Lutheran Church in Phoenix.

Prayer and reading the Bible have been priorities from the very beginning for my husband Don and me. We began our tradition of writing and printing up a Christmas letter, giving testimony about God to family and friends. Later I began writing personal blessings for birthdays and anniversaries. My inspirational writing expanded over the following years.

On my last birthday I reached that amazing year of Six Dozen. I look back and thank the Lord for sixty years of knowing I am saved and on my way to Heaven. My prayer is that each person will make it a priority to ask Jesus to come into his or her life and have the joy of being Born Again. It means having a Best Friend, forever.

Now, that I’ve shared a short version of my faith experiences hopefully you’ll take up the challenge of writing about your own faith experience. Sometime you’d want to share this with closest family and friends. Do it soon; it could be a golden moment.
# # #
by Elaine Hardt ©2008

Nine Questions Await Your Private Conversation

Nine simple questions can be a mirror for the mind. When no one is looking over your shoulder you can own up to what’s going on; your answers can reflect honesty. A few minutes from now you might get a self-nudge to authentic action, and that may lead to a new level of peace of mind. Look at this list.

1. What’s going well in your life?
2. What are you grateful for?
3. What would help you?
4. What changes would you like?
5. What do you have questions about?
6. What’s bothering you the most this week?
7. What are you looking for, short-term?
8. What are you looking for, long-term?
9. What do you think God wants you to do about it?

Nine simple questions await your private conversation. No need to struggle with impromptu answers. Give each one a quick reply.

Now ask yourself: what question would I add as number 10 to the above list? What question do I need to ask myself, and what’s my answer?

Perhaps you’ll want to revisit the list again next week and see if there are any changes. Taking inventory periodically can be a productive way to save time and energy by giving focus on both the good and the not-so-good events happening around you.

Sometimes there’s nothing as helpful as a few questions and sincere answers. Give yourself a private conversation and see what happens. # # #

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

In Heaven's Throne Room

In Heaven there is a Throne Room where the most glorious sound surrounds you. Magnificent music soars and caresses each word: “Holy, Holy, Holy!”

Imposing ivory columns, intricately carved, reach up from the glistening marble floor into the rich turquoise of the sky. The grand center aisle is strewn with opalescent flower petals. The most indescribably exquisite aroma of incense swirls overhead like a silvery gossamer curtain on a summer’s perfect breeze.

Companies of angels, resplendent in pastel robes with golden sashes, stand row upon row, as far as the eye can see. Their voices swell in exalted harmony, then soften to a single clear note, before again resounding to a majestic refrain. Rows of harpists produce exuberant trills, while cymbal players clash their golden instruments. Thundering notes echo with excellent splendor; their resonance sends shivers up and down the listener’s spine. The total effect is overwhelming.

I looked straight ahead. In a brilliancy I had only dreamed about I could see the Great Throne of Grace and the object of such intense adoration and worship, Jesus Christ, Himself. I basked in enthrallment.

All of a sudden there was a bang, like the sound of a huge door slamming. The patter of running footsteps was heard. I spun around to see what it could be.

There was no pause in the celestial symphony, however. One angel leaned down to whisper to me, “It’s just some kids.”

Sure enough, two youngsters ran down the grand center aisle towards the Great Throne. Reaching the front, a lad reached out to clasp the hand of his friend, a little girl, who lagged slightly behind.

“Come on!” his youthful voice urged, then, “Jesus! Jesus! I brought my friend.”

For the slightest moment I almost expected a personage of some authority to step in front to block their access. But then from the throne came a mighty voice, “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them.”

The braver one had obviously been there before and knew what to do. The other glanced around shyly before letting the lad draw her closer.

Up the red velvet carpeted steps, right towards the beautiful throne they now walked confidently together. Jesus extended both arms to beckon them even closer. Then, in one swoop of His right hand he lifted the lad up on His lap, while reaching to bring the girl up to sit on His other leg.

Readily they both were seated. I could not tell who was happier, Jesus or the children. Their smiles were like rainbows’ reflection for their brightness.

Then a most unexpected thing happened. The Throne began to rock! Gently back and forth, like a mother’s rocking chair in the nursery. Like a grandparent’s rocker in the parlor. The children snuggled up to Him.

“I love you,” Jesus was singing. “I love You, too,” was the youthful refrain. Then after another warm embrace the lad began, “I brought my friend to You.”

“Oh, yes. I am pleased.” And Jesus bent to whisper to the little girl.

“Oh, Jesus. You know my name!” was her delighted response.

My curiosity got the best of me; I had to avert my eyes from them and look around. The angelic choir sang on, giving honor and glory and praise. The intrusion had not interrupted their music. Perhaps this is a frequent happening in Heaven, I thought in amazement.

At that moment such love and tenderness swept all adult reason from my mind. Fearlessly I stepped forward. I could never have predicted such a thing, but at once I found myself standing before Him. Before Jesus Christ, awesome Son of God and Son of Man.

With broad grins the youngsters slipped down from Jesus’ lap; the lad called back over his shoulder as they descended the velvet carpeted stairs, “See you later.”

Strong arms reached out and placed me on that wonderful lap. I gladly yielded to His warm embrace. And that wonderful Throne began to gently rock. “So this is prayer?” I asked in wonder.
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by Elaine Hardt ©1996

Still Friends

A high school pen-pal assignment brought together two girls from very different parts of the world. Both were excited to find long distance friendship, and when the semester was over they decided to keep on writing. At least once a month their notes and cards crossed the Atlantic.

Fifty years later the English lass flew to California, and they met. The local newspaper chronicled their longtime friendship in a feature column. It sounded so nice, all except that one paragraph towards the end. “The unspoken rule had been ‘no politics and no religion’ and so the sharing back and forth had been about daily household life.”

Stunned, I reread the article. What a waste of life, I decided. Imagine what important views of local and world history could have been written down. Think how the two could have deepened their friendship. Struggles could have been honestly discussed and now treasured. Perhaps ideals could have been examined, and perspective deepened.

I thought of how it could have been. Surely they could have been still friends.

“Elizabeth, my heart breaks to think of the terrible circumstances you face with the bombing so near. How are you making it through?”

“Dee, I was shocked to hear about the devastating forest fire so close to your home. How is it affecting you personally?”

Why was such a barrier erected and maintained all those years?

“Well, I would insist on those same restrictions,” you may interject. “My deeply held beliefs are my own business.”

And I would question if you are still friends. Possibilities of misunderstandings are always present, speaking in person or in writing. Why settle for shallow trivia for conversation? Can we not venture forth with our latest comments about politics? Can we not openly ask each other about matters of faith?

Must there be suspicions and conflict? Is either person so uncertain that he or she cannot put into words a political or religious opinion?

Could an exchange of ideas bring one or the other person additional information? Is there nothing new to learn, nothing in the past to be recalled? Could both profit from the mental skills in examining alternative possibilities?

If someone kindly and correctly points out some flaw in my reasoning or some missing ingredients in my argument am I to pretend that I am perfect, and need no help at all?

Mama’s “because I said so” was adequate with the three year-olds, and my own “because that’s the school’s rule” gave me some dictatorial clout when I taught third grade, but now we can consider freedom in the pursuit of important ideas.

Please tell me your point of view and your source of facts in the political arena. This is a very important election year. And please tell me what your beliefs about God and Jesus are. It’s life and death, and such a fine topic for friends to smile and share.

Can we still be friends?

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Jesus told two stories about friends in Luke 15: 3-9. His points included these: friends care, listen, and celebrate when the problem is solved.

Jesus calls us His friends when we obey Him. “You are my friends if you do what I command . . . Now you are my friends since I have told you everything the Father told me. You didn’t choose me. I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce lasting fruit, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name. This is my command: Love each other.” John 15:14-17, NLT

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Be Courageous and Bold

No fear! No regrets! Think what that means to you,
In your latest struggle is God able to bring you through?
When conflicting news is what you’ve heard,
Turn to the wisdom of God’s Word.

Toss aside confusion, doubts, and aggravation,
Press ahead with prayer and determination;
Don’t be tied down by faithless hesitation,
Flex your mental muscles towards exploration.

What do you think God wants you to do?
His Holy Spirit empowers you;
You’re not alone, He shows you how,
Be courageous! Be bold! Begin right now!

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

Jim's (Grin)

I’d been getting e-mails from Jim lately, now that he was elected president of the local computer group. One identifying mark of most every note from him was a notation: (grin). He was not one to put on airs, as we used to say. A down-to-earth guy he’d put you at ease, and he did pass on information with a friendly humor and that (grin).

The usefulness of a (grin) became evident now. I promised myself to try to remember to identify my humor, as well as other pertinent emotions. That’s one advantage a phone call or a conversation in person, or even the writing of a story or an article has over just sending a quick e-mail or letter. The recipient can hear the tone of your voice or see such helpful words as “she gasped” or “she giggled” or “he smiled.”

Identifying emotion is a valuable skill. When you’re watching a play the actors are adopting a stance or a tone of voice to get across to the audience the importance and meaning of their scripted words. When you’re writing a poem or story or article the choice of words either assists or confuses the reader.

Maybe there should be more “what I mean to say is” or “the gist of the matter to me is.” Would an introduction of “I thought this was funny” or “this is a serious matter” help the recipient of the letter?

What terminology are you comfortable using? What little hints or outright labeling would help you be more specific when you write?

We might write one thing quickly and send it off, without giving the words a second look. Perhaps there’d be better words to use, better phrasing to compose. Perhaps in our haste we haven’t given any thought to the emotion we wish the reader to comprehend.

A clear notion of emotion may be what’s missing in our writing, as well as in our reading of letters and notes.. Now, for friends and family I’m latching on to Jim’s (grin) and enjoying a new awareness of helpful notation.
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Encouraging You

Encouraging you,
How is it possible to do?

Reaching out in a way that's kind,
Appealing to your thoughtful mind.
Suggesting some ideas I know,
Letting a little my struggle show.
Maybe exploring facets of success,
Learning strength from challenge and weakness.
Praying you'd be a lot less stressed,
Asking God that your life be blessed.
Sharing Scripture that I've pondered,
Talking about how all have wandered.
Jesus' forgiveness gives release,
Grace and faith brings joy and peace.
Life means great opportunity, I'd say,
Encouraging you on this brand new day!

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

Summer is also for the birds.

photo by Carlene Hardt ©2007

Show Your Summer Smile!

Lay aside your busy work,

put on a summer smile;

look around, enjoy what you see,

appreciation is your style.

All too soon a day is over

and quickly nights are gone;

Go, enjoy the scenery,

if only from your lawn.

Flowers bloom so sweetly,

and even weeds are growing;

each a summer miracle

our Creator's touch is showing.

As clouds gather overhead

perhaps soon it will be raining;

Yes, it is quite warm outside,

but what good is complaining?

Life is for thinking and learning,

paying attention to see,

finding in every circumstance

interesting complexity.

Was this wondrous life your plan?

You'll want to take some time to pray,

thanking God for His goodness

starting now, today.

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

Father's Approval

Can you remember a time when your father gave you his approval? Was it verbal or unspoken, such as a silent hug or pat on the head or squeeze of the shoulder?

“Satisfying” might be the best word to describe what it feels like to receive your father’s approval.

Children and young adults need to receive their father’s approval. It is part of that growing up process where the older, wiser one, head of the family and provider for the family speaks some words of acceptance. No matter how rambunctious or silly or aloof the youngster may appear to be, a deep need exists for the type of recognition only a father can give.

Oh, looking at a good report card, or getting a high-five from the team’s coach, or hearing a cheery word from a friend can bring a good feeling of acceptance. A mom’s nod and smile as the teen dashes out the door is expected and desired by that girl or boy. But until there is a father’s approval something is lacking in your life — this means anyone of us.

At any age, to receive or even just to remember his or her father’s words of approval brings a deep healing, or at least helps bring the beginning of such a healing.

What is it NOT?
Father’s Approval is not a “Anything goes, Kiddo!” It doesn’t mean spoiling your offspring. Too wise for that, the father wants to convey acceptance, along with solid example and words that show and tell the truths that are timeless. Each person has amazing potential. Life is unpredictable. As you respond to its challenges you can make good choices.

It doesn’t take a perfect father or a perfect son or daughter for there to be a Father’s Approval. God loves us before we even realize what such love is.

Why is it missing?
Why don’t kids get a father’s approval? Yes, they press against the boundaries, try their newly found freedoms, exaggerate, and hang out with other immature kids. Kids believe in the depth of their hearts that they do not deserve father’s approval.

Why don’t older sons and daughters get a father’s approval? By now, with jobs, homes, marriages, kids of their own they seem to be too busy. It’s a relief to be able to find their own avenues of receiving satisfaction.
What about those of us who have weathered life’s storms for over 60 years? Our parents have died, some friends have died by now. Retired, we have time to remember. We have a greater perspective for judging life’s events and people. With a desire for understanding and wisdom we may realize that we have missed out on some important times of life.

Perhaps we missed receiving our father’s approval, we missed out giving our approval to our children. We may even confront the feeling of missing out on God’s approval. What a heavy load this can be.

Is it too late to GET?
Look back through your memories. Perhaps you’ll recall some unspoken approvals from your father. Jot down details for yourself, so if some day you can’t remember as well, you will be comforted, knowing they’re written and vital memories are not lost.

Is it too late to GIVE?
See if you remember giving your own approval to your kids, maybe not in so many words, but in other significant ways. Jot down on paper these recollections for yourself. Use them as a starting point for a new writing you will want to do. No matter the age of your offspring it is not too late to give them the special blessing of Father’s Approval.

How do you begin?
Putting a father’s approval into words is a job that you assign to yourself. You begin with a draft of ideas on paper. This first version mellows and you rewrite it with more clarity, perhaps giving some examples, recognizing the other person’s different temperament, different struggles and challenges.

You will want to include in your own words and terminology such wonderful concepts of acceptance, love, realization of belonging to each other. Many parents find it’s easier to write this than to verbalize extemporaneously.

Don’t hesitate to turn to the Bible for a favorite verse that speaks of love, confession, restoration, and acceptance. Pray for God’s guidance. Giving a blessing is His idea.

What concepts do you want to convey?
You are the son (the daughter) I always wanted. I did not realize the components of temperament that you were born with. I didn’t understand how your growing up would be different from what I had experienced. I need to clarify my love for you. You are a valuable person in my sight, and that’s what God says about you, too. He loves you. I bless you in His name.

What words might you use?
Scan this list for some ideas of words you might use in composing a written piece.
Admiration, Appreciate, Approval, Concerned, Encouragement, Esteem, Favorable, Healing, Helpful, Kind, Learning, Love, Potential, Purpose, Reassuring, Receptive, Recognize, Regard, Respect, Restorative, Supportive, Sympathetic, Understanding, Validation.

The Father’s Approval you are writing should mention blessings you want the Lord to impart. Consider such words as these:
Assurance, Courage, Determination, Discernment, Discovery, Faith, Goals, Love, Perseverance, Pray, Strength, Thankful, Trust, Wisdom, Words.

How will it look on paper?
The full version may be a page or more, written out by hand or printed from the computer. It may look nice on pretty paper from the office supply store. You may be inspired to add some photos, some quotations, some Bible verses. By the time you’ve given yourself that go-ahead and rewritten this jewel of acceptance you might have other bright ideas. Put pages into a notebook, a folder, even print it in booklet form with a personalized cover. Date it and sign it.

When do you give it?
This printed Approval now awaits presentation. Just the two of you? Perhaps the family gathered for a birthday or graduation celebration? Or at that party or family reunion where you take the stage to announce the giving of the father’s approval?

Will the spotlight be on you, or on your child? Do you need affirmation from the bystanders, or will it be enough to give and receive just from that child?

Consider the child’s comfort level. Perhaps a short, informal pronouncement during some occasion, followed by a more private time together to read the whole writing you’ve put together. Don’t forget to hug.

Do you know God’s Approval?
Acknowledging how busy most of us are there seems to be a good reason for omitting a serious consideration about God. Here we deprive ourselves of a powerful blessing. All throughout Scripture are strong admonitions, great words of wisdom, along with warnings. Life is a time of learning. Life is short. It seems long and complicated and confusing, but getting older we see things differently.

God has made us each individuals, certainly we are unique, even peculiar! Civilization needs that variety of talents, interests, abilities. Families experience those differences, but sometimes we parents expect our youngsters to be clones of ourselves — liking the same things, approaching problems the same way, aiming for the same goals.

Each of us is called to a new commitment of life. Success means doing life by the Lord’s leading.

Acknowledge where you are, in all of this. Be honest about your shortcomings, needs, desires.

To receive God’s blessing is humbling, as well as empowering. You can know the joy of receiving your Heavenly Father’s Approval.

And you can experience the joy of giving a blessing to your child, at any age. Father’s Approval is a powerful affirmation.

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“ . . . Be strong and of good courage;
do not be afraid, nor be dismayed,
for the LORD your God is with you
wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9, NKJV

“Watch, stand fast in the faith,
be brave,
be strong.” I Corinthians 16:13, NKJV

“And be kind to one another,
tenderhearted, forgiving one another,
even as God in Christ forgave you.”
Ephesians 4:32, NKJV

“I pray that from His glorious, unlimited resources
he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit.
Then Christ will make His home in your hearts as you trust in Him.
Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong.”
Ephesians 3:16-17 NLT

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by Elaine Hardt ©2008

Proposing a New Holiday: Dependence Day!

Independence Day parades, fireworks, celebrations!

Patriotic Americans give thanks for our blessings,

Faithful, informed, involved; each speaking up

for freedom, morality, and sharing the Gospel.

Three cheers for the red, white, and blue!

Now, everybody, let's proclaim our Dependence Day!

Let's acknowledge and give thanks to God.

We will always be able to depend on Him;

past our own abilities to think it up, figure it out,

or live by our own efforts and abilities.

Let's take time for a serious, honest talk

with our Creator; He loves each of us.

Life is too short to show Him disrespect.

His Word is clear; His grace is given to those who ask.

Three cheers for Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

by Elaine Hardt ©2008 

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Thinking Aloud, Struggling for a Conclusion

"I can't believe in God," the man said. "The billions of galaxies are too big, too complex, too powerful. Why, if there were a God, he would have to be Almighty beyond anything we have discovered and examined on our planet, in our universe. It strains the imagination!

"He would be big, intelligent, powerful. He would take unimaginable interest in us, the only beings of our type; we the highest of the created beings who are capable of even thinking that there is a One God, Almighty." The man's conclusion was to walk away.

Later alone, thinking aloud I owned up to my struggle. It took awhile, but leads me to an inescapable God-directed conclusion. He is — He is! Of course, He is holy; we'd call it perfect, and to be honest, we are completely imperfect. We need His way, His provision, to be forgiven. To send His son would demonstrate perfect love.

My conclusion is so evidently necessary; I cry out to Him above the sky. I open the only Book of its kind, invite Him to work a miracle in my heart. Oh, God of creation, God of miracles, accept me, forgive me, help me. Now I call you my Heavenly Father.

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

Does God Love Africa?

A faraway place we do not see, a place where most do not go;

how can we know enough to care,

unless someone tells us so?

Not a paragraph or map or what a news article may show,

but a travel account, day by day,

written by someone we know.

Not viewed by jaded, professional eyes,

but by one who walked their streets,

who saw how someone lives and dies.

Joy personally shares her emotions and her youthful view,

she goes there and volunteers to help;

she brings Africa to you.

Now we all can pray with more direction, more power,

asking God's blessing for these people,

aware of their difficult hour.

Not only help for the body, but freedom for the soul,

African people need to know Jesus,

He alone can make them whole.

God loves Africa!  A reminder you and I need.

Pray for Joy and HardtHaven

to be blessed where God leads.

by "Grandma" Elaine Hardt ©2006

(See Joy's website: www.HardtHaven.org)

Joy and the orphans at HardtHaven, Kpando, Ghana

photo from Ghana @2008

My Completely Wonderful Blessing

Heavenly Father, I come with a quiet heart,

ready to receive a completely wonderful blessing today.

In honesty I acknowledge my sin and weakness,

In gratitude I receive Your forgiveness,

In gladness I speak Your blessing over myself.

LOVE: I bless myself with a growing, glowing realization

of what love is and Who loves me.  It is You,

Almighty Father, Creator of All, Savior, Lord!

JOY: I bless myself with joy that does not depend

upon circumstances that surround me — the past, present, future.

Joy that fully trusts God fills my needy heart.

PEACE: I bless myself with an abundance of peace,

an appreciation of the awesome presence of God.  You are here,

telling me that trouble is a temporary test.

PATIENCE: I bless myself with patience that says, "Yes," to God.

I am released from relying on my own ideas.  I calmly accept uncertainties

because Your wisdom teaches, reminds, and empowers me.

KINDNESS: I bless myself with contentment,

as I learn to listen to Your kindness and mercy.

I reflect Your kindness as I bravely reach out to others.

GOODNESS: I bless myself with the satisfying fulfillment

of Your goodness, nourishing my hungry soul.

Your plan for my life is very good.

FAITHFULNESS:  I bless myself with confidence that embraces me.

You are faithful in Your Word, Your promises, Your love.

Your faithfulness enables me to stand strong in the storms.

GENTLENESS:  I bless myself with Your gentleness

that is healing me, body and soul.  Thank You for

giving me quiet times for restoration.

SELF-CONTROL:  I bless myself with awareness of self-control,

the perfection of the touch of Your hand upon my heart.

Fear, stress, anger, confusion cannot stay in Your presence.

Lord, Your grace produces wonderful results, fruits of the Spirit.

By faith I declare myself completely blessed for today!

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

(Considering Galatians 5:22, 23; Philippians 4:8; Matthew 28:20)

Why the Delay? I'm in a Hurry!

To be used of God, to be a blessing,

or, to get through today's struggle and pain,

to find His peace and to find faith's release,

to survive the wind, the earthquake, the rain.

Why does it take so long? 

God, you see I am in a hurry,

so why does it take so long?

I need to see Your touch on me,

I'm ready to sing victory's song.

Then God showed me in His Word

how his choice servants waited to see;

not turning aside to man-made pride,

but walking it out, trustingly.

Abraham and Sarah long waiting for a son,

Elisha following until Elijah's work was done,

Moses spent 40 years in a desert place,

Joseph was a prisoner in a land of foreign race.

Before he became king David had been anointed for years,

Ruth walked in obedience with hard work and tears,

Esther waited and waited before the Jews could win,

It seemed like a long time for Daniel in the lions' den.

Noah, 120 years of ridicule,

Saul in Damascus, learning in God's school;

Jesus, 30 years, growing from child to man,

these, our examples, showing us we can.

God wants us to learn to trust and obey,

the road ahead is often concealed;

without knowing, we are to keep on going,

to the deeper things in His Word revealed.

Be teachable; do not grow weary,

God has designed for you this very test;

You ask the reason for this growing season?

His time, His way is always best.

by Elaine Hardt © 1999

Life So Brief, So Precious

Like a beautiful rose

blooms and shares its sweet scent,

comes a time when life ends

and we cannot call it back.

From infant to a child,

then boy to man,

and father to grandfather,

one day his last breath would come.

From questions to decisions,

life's challenges to determination,

through struggles and survival;

one day no choices remain.

Life, like a precious treasure

is ours to temporarily claim,

but eventually we must lay it aside

and then leave and go on.

If God is real —and how can it not be

since He created all of the universe and you and me

so we must meet Him at the appointed time

eventually.

The heart cries in pain, "I long to go Home,"

for surely we long to live eternally.

Jesus is the door and He invites us in,

His love is what the soul must see.

by Elaine Hardt ©2007

photo by Carlene Hardt ©2007

19 Things You Probably Know About Fathers

Fathers have some good points.

1. They go out and work and pay for your childhood.

2. They eat what's left over from supper so it doesn't go to waste.

3. They know about the "olden days."

We kids know their secrets.  

1. Fathers are strong and tough, but don't make a big deal out of having feelings.

2. They're avoiding doctors and dentists because, well, just because.

3. They like us more than they let on.

We also know their shortcomings.

1. Fathers aren't Superman, even though we kids wished they were.

2. They don't pay much attention to us, but they know too much about us, anyway.

3. By evening they tend to tire out prematurely, after having worked all day, fixed things around the house and yard, tended to the needs of the car and truck, and lectured us kids.

Most fathers know the truth.

1. They know there are better fathers out there in the world.

2. They know they could do better, after hearing the Sunday sermon.

3. They know they won't be around long enough to do it all.

We kids could have done better, too.

1. Their stories of growing up were more important than we thought.

2. They would have liked to hear us say, "I love you, dad," a lot more often.

3. They needed prayer more than we realized.

Fathers are only human.

1. Fathers have a mind of their own and a life of their own.

2. Old men were once young men, vigorous and determined to succeed.

3. Sometimes fathers lose their strength or memory or money.  This embarrasses him.

4. Too soon fathers aren't in your life, anymore.

God is the best Father of all.

God is better than anyone's father.  He isn't wishy-washy or moody or worn-out.  He has all the strength and wisdom and power.  He doesn't talk just to hear Himself talk.  He really pays attention to you all the time.

God is an equal-opportunity Father.

He loves us all.  He's given us all a life here on earth.  Stress and struggles come to all.  We will all die.  Heaven will be the destination of all who do it His way.  Jesus is God's Way.

So?

Life goes on.  Find time to do the really important things.

Love your father.  Love your Father.

by Elaine Hardt ©2001 

When You're Over 39

What happens when you pass 39? 

Is it a giggle or a frown

when a memory goes hiding?

Uncertainties can get you down. 

Names and places, facts and dates,

there's more than there used to be;

Of course, it becomes a challenge

you'll manage of necessity.

The choice is yours, I say choose well,

have a cheery statement ready;

Expect some forgetfulness, but

with a smile, hold steady.

Thank God for forgiveness of sins

which you would like to forget;

His plan for you is blessing,

Live each day without regret.

So, when you are corrected

nod kindly, as if to claim a prize;

Yes, you have lived past 39

with a twinkle in your eyes.

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

A New Look

A new look, a different color scheme,

it perks up the room, it livens up the blog.

Now, if only it were this easy —a click here and there—

to give my looks a new look,

to perk up my personality,

to liven up my life . . . 

Do you know what I mean?

Thanks for your suggestions,

your example,

your encouragement.

Let's sit down with a tall glass

of blended Roma,

topped with whipped cream and

dark chocolate swirls,

and let's you and me talk.

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

Much More

Life is complicated —
hazards can’t be ignored.
Ordinary routine
leaves a person feeling bored.
New possibilities
must certainly be explored.

Of confidence and happiness,
don’t we all want more?
Need energizing wisdom,
insight that gets to the core?
Jettison pale, gray attitudes;
you’ve struggled with them before.

Don’t settle for too little,
or neglect your future anymore;
Spiritual understanding
is what the Bible’s for.
Talk to your Heavenly Father;
life with Him is so much more.

by Elaine Hardt ©2008

The Neighbor’s Weeds

My idea of hard work is to sit in the shade with a lemonade. Usually there’s a breeze from the south, and the weeping willow is broad and tall in my yard.

Not long ago my yard taught me a few fascinating facts about my life, your life, and life in general.

After an afternoon’s shower some small green weeds showed their faces. Here in the high desert a little green is a nice, restful color, so I didn’t panic. A few days later some tiny yellow flowers greeted me as I walked to the mailbox across the road. Upon closer inspection they were attached to some things I had not planted. Weeds.

By the next week my nice, easy-to-care-for gravel landscaped yard was spotted with green of all shades. It was time for action.

One flat green weed reminded me of one of mama’s crocheted doilies, so round and symmetrical. I left it be. I bent over to examine a pale green weed, entangled with another purplish weed. The more I looked around the yard the more weeds I saw. Some were producing sharp stickers. Those will have to go now, I decided impulsively.

Ouch! This is not a job for bare hands.

Some weeds had amazingly long roots. For about an hour it was fun to see how many I could pull out intact. Then it was time for shade and lemonade.

That night sleep eluded my tired body as my mind was busily concocting a clever little dream.

At first, I was in a bookstore or a library. A girl handed me a large, heavy book, Weeds for Dummies and Clue-less Beginners. Flipping it open I saw it was written in some foreign language.

Impulsively, I set the book down and reached for a slender leather-bound book, How to Create a Lovely Life for Yourself. “Not for you!” a voice cackled.

All of a sudden I was surrounded by a group of tall, skinny men with scrawny gray beards. Their chorus of complaints started off in a joking tone, growing loud and sarcastic.

“Hey, that ditch in front of your house is a nationally-proclaimed wet land. You can’t disturb anything without government permission,” the first man taunted.

“Hey, we don’t go for someone like you showing off. Now is the time to celebrate diversity. Settle down. Quit picking on those weeds. Look for their beauty.”

“Hey, don’t ya know it’s Weed Appreciation week? The sooner you stop that violence the sooner we can have a peaceful world.”

“How dare you criticize that weed. So it’s poisonous? So it’s reproducing and spreading? It has as much right to exist as you do. This is a peaceful neighborhood.”

“Who are you to question Evolution? Let the weeds be. They are evolving into something else, and it’s for the good of the entire planet.”

“Who are you to act so self-righteous? Who are you to pass judgment on those weeds!”

“Hey, what kind of a Christian are you with so many sins growing in your life. You have no business talking about my weeds. Look at yours!”

Finally coming to my senses I called out, “Father. These guys are irritating me!”

Instantly the dream dissolved. Peace came to my troubled mind, but sleep eluded me so I got up. Wrapped in my robe I turned on the lamp and settled into the easy chair. Reaching for my tablet I jotted down some things I wanted to remember. I smiled to think how good it is for my Heavenly Father to bring important lessons to my mind. Soon I made my way back to bed, and back to sleep.

With the dawning of another blue-sky day I headed towards that easy chair and the tablet. Now I translated the scrawls into neat handwriting.

Weeds Are Like Sins, I titled the page.
1. Weeds can be noxious, some are worse than others. Sins can appear to be interestingly complex and strangely enticing.
2. Weeds, like sins, are there as a challenge to you. You are to master them.
3. A beautiful yard (life) is cared for and creative. It takes time and effort.
4. If you can’t pull out the toughest weeds water them briefly to loosen the soil. Weeping over your sins is OK, but get on with pulling them out.
5. Sometimes it seems like good strategy to pull up the small ones first. You feel successful as the muck bucket fills up. You see results.
6. Your muscles get stronger from pulling out the weeds.
7. Sometimes interesting little bugs and worms make their homes under the spreading stems, but they’ll merely keep you entertained while the weeds keep growing.
8. Ripping off some of the leaves isn’t eradication. The root is still growing underground. Soon the weed (the sin) will emerge even stronger.
9. Your yard (life) can get infested with weeds from what’s nearby. Seeds of anger, disappointment, deception, even pornography can blow into your yard. If people around you are promoting such sins give serious thought to how to protect yourself.
10. Your neighbor’s weeds will affect your yard, but passivity won’t solve it.
11. Getting angry about someone else’s sins and confronting them with “you should not,” and “you ought not,” and “you are stupid if you,” might not achieve good results.
12. Your Heavenly Father has given you the job of growing a beautiful life, but you can’t do it on your own. He will help you.
13. Sometimes a beautiful yard (life) attracts people’s attention and they stop to admire it and even ask you about it. Perhaps they notice the fountain that splashes into the pond, the colorful flowers, or even are attracted by the lovely scent of the lilac bushes.

Later, as my coffee pot percolated, perfuming the kitchen with the aroma of morning I reviewed my experience. Weeds remind us of bad habits, sins, careless words and behavior—all must be rooted out. What to do? See it, say it, confess it, quit it. After that watch for it to pop up in your life again. Keep after those pesky thoughts and behaviors.

We can’t pull out the sins from somebody else’s heart, but obviously we can pray for them to become aware of their need of Jesus as Savior and Lord.

Right then and there my Father and I had another conversation. I was thankful that I learned something from all of those weeds. Obviously, it’s not a perfect comparison with life.

Then, last week as I read the Sunday School lesson in Genesis 5:15-22 the Lord blessed me with a new understanding. I have to deal with the weeds of the neighbors. Joseph had to deal with the problems caused by others.

Each one reaps a harvest of seeds of their own doings. But each is also affected by the sins of others. Of the brothers, Joseph alone had kept strong in his faith, true to the dream of the future God had given him. It meant hard work and determination, stress and struggle, but it was worth it.

In the Old Testament we read about another young man who was tempted to sin. David yielded, but eventually confessed his sin. Psalm 51 shows us that David experienced the very real presence of the living God, the same Lord who invites you and me to experience His presence, His love, His purpose.

“Hide thy face from my sins,
and blot out all mine iniquities.

Create in me a clean heart, O God;
and renew a right spirit within me.

Cast me not away from thy presence;
and take not thy holy spirit from me.

Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation;
and uphold me with thy free spirit.

Then will I teach transgressors thy ways;
and sinners shall be converted unto thee.”
(Psalm 51:9-13).

Here’s to a weed-free yard and a sin-free life! Forgiveness! Joy! Peace of mind! A purpose for living! Jesus enables us to live a beautiful life.
❤
By Elaine Hardt ©2006

Why Read the Bible?

Want to live forever?
This book will tell you how;
Want to have God’s blessing?
Read the Bible now.

The Author comes to speak to you,
He tells about life and death;
He’s God, our great Creator,
The one who gives us breath.

Young or old or in-between?
Here’s truth that we must know;
Open your heart now to receive,
It’s the only way to grow.

Don’t neglect to read God’s Word,
Take some time to pray;
Receive Jesus as your Savior,
Then trust Him and obey.

It’s faith you need, and so believe,
You’ll learn what’s false and true,
Take this challenge, get started now,
What an adventure for you!


By Elaine Hardt ©2008

A Special Place for You

There’s a special place for you
Where your name is on the door;
A place to unwind, spout off,
Relax and be revived some more.

Picture this: an upper room,
A Bible, and a comfy chair;
A place to go by yourself alone
And meet your Best Friend there.

Turn to His Book and read,
Have honest conversation;
Seek the wisdom that He gives,
Fill your heart with inspiration.

Release irritations and emotions,
Your shortcomings confess;
Obeying the Lord leads to
A new degree of success.

Miracles are possible,
There’s power to be received;
Questions asked, lessons discussed,
Protection from being deceived.

Bring here your concerns for others,
Relinquish heavy burdens you bear;
Enjoy this special closeness to Him
In the upper room called, “prayer.”

By Elaine Hardt ©2008

The Missing Easter Poem

“Where’s this year’s Easter poem?” my sister said,
So I started to look inside my head;
My brain struggled to find something new,
Then I realized there was work to do.

Come forth, bright ideas, from where you are hiding,
Surely creativity is somewhere abiding;
Alas, my pursuit turned up no new rhyme,
And by now I was running out of time!

Oh, nouns and adjectives and verbs with power,
Rescue me from this impending, stressful hour!
In desperation I turned to prayer,
And found my Heavenly Father there.

Turning from fiction’s play to truth of reality,
Open our eyes, Lord, it’s You we must see;
Jesus, God’s Son, Savior, faithful Friend,
Receiving You before life comes to an end.

Here owning up to my lack of fresh inspiration
I’ll write again of love and celebration:
Remember crucifixion and resurrection day;
This is the most valuable thing I can say.

By Elaine Hardt ©2008

Today is an Awesome Day!

God in His glory, Awesome Creator of the Cosmos
is inviting me to come to Him
to adore and worship Him in prayer!

God in His astounding mercy
is calling me to come to Him
to save me from sin, deliver me from destruction!

God in His amazing grace
is teaching me to abide in Him,
to walk moment by moment, secure in His love!

God in His magnificent wisdom
is empowering me by His Holy Spirit
to be part of His Body, His people on earth!

God in His great majesty
is bringing me through trials and testings to victory
to be His child in Heaven, forever!

PRAYER IS
a mighty calling, a mighty task,
a mighty empowering,
a delightful reality;

Father, may my prayer bring You delight!


By Elaine Hardt ©2001

Easter Now

Long ago and far away
Jesus rose from the dead, they say.
But that was then
and this is now.

Times are rough and unforgiving;
Getting by is scarcely living.
If there be truth
I must know now.

Pretty words stop short for me;
My soul demands reality.
If I've been blind
open my eyes.

In my honest search I found
a Father's loving arms,
a warm embrace,
eternal prize.

Oh! amazing grace so undeserved
and joy beyond description!
New life is NOW
and yet to be!

—Elaine Hardt ©1991

Overloaded?

Are you a kind, loving, concerned Christian? An active pray-er and a do-er? The person they call when they need help?
Ask yourself why you are doing all of this.

Is it to please others? Is it to please God? We cannot save and cure a needy and hurting world with our own strength and talent. We cannot earn our way to God.

If you find yourself taking on problems of others, becoming well-versed in all the details of their lives, then you need to pause and take stock of what’s going on.

It’s good to be concerned!
There’s a good side of being involved in others’ lives: it helps develop our compassion and mercy, it demonstrates kindness. Christians are expected to be hard-working and conscientious. People are helped; they are grateful. Our active participation can lead us to a deeper prayer life. We can be used by God.

It’s not good to be overloaded!
There’s another side. It’s the overloaded side of being involved: it can become an obsession. Those hurting people can become dependent upon us as their only source of a listening ear. We can get entangled in their affairs.

Our time is consumed more and more. We may neglect, irritate, or even alienate our own families. When we get weighted down with the problems of the world we can wear down the body’s immune system. We become vulnerable to physical problems and emotional problems.

If we are “man-pleasers” eventually we run out of time, energy, and bright ideas. Stress and frustration can lead to burnout.
In addition to ordinary time management techniques consider these spiritual safeguards to help avoid becoming overloaded.

Twelve Safeguards:

1. Listen to God. Ask God if you are to become involved in the matter. Ask Him to show you the extent that He wants you to be in it. If He does not call you to do this, relinquish it and relax. He may have someone else for this assignment, or He may want you to have a limited part in it.

2. Feed yourself FIRST. Start the day like Mary, sitting at Jesus’ feet. Don’t let all of the Martha tasks crowd out this time of intimacy with the Lord. Throughout the day have Scripture close at hand so you can refill your mind with His powerful promises.

3. Pray with confidence. After you’ve prayed with and for the hurting person remember Who’s been listening. (I John 4:21-22)

4. Point them to Jesus. The hurting person(s) need Jesus more than anything else in all the world. Salvation is first. They need to know they can go directly to Him and pour out their hearts to Him. Show them Bible verses that will help them learn about our wonderful Lord. Encourage them to pray aloud to Him after you’ve prayed aloud over them.

5. Point them to their Father. Many people are hurting because they did not have a father who understood them and gave them attention. Perhaps they had an abusive father. Point them to our Heavenly Father who loves them unconditionally. Show them Bible verses that teach these important facts.

6. Point them to the Holy Spirit. They need the power of the Holy Spirit. Show them Bible verses that point them to the wonderful truth of God in us. If we — or they— try to do everything excellently on our own we are setting ourselves up for a fall. Only by the indwelling Holy Spirit can we please God.

7. Let go. As the tales of woe and prayer requests pile up, take them daily directly to the foot of the Cross. Leave them there. By His stripes we are healed. (Isaiah 53:5 and I Peter 2:24) Jesus Christ paid the penalty, the price for our sin. (Romans 5:8-9) We must not carry these burdens back with us!

8. Praise God. Turn Satan’s bad news back onto him. Praise God. Thank God for every possible aspect of the situation that comes to mind. Then thank Him for the things you don’t even understand. He can intervene and do wondrous things. Put on the garment of praise. (Isaiah 61:3) The joy of the Lord is your strength. (Nehemiah 8:10)

9. Keep in balance. The Lord has made us body, soul, and spirit. Each part needs attention and care. Do not get out of balance. Every day we need rest, good healthy food, fun with our family, light-hearted leisure, exercise. We need a regularly scheduled Sabbath rest.

10. Give Him glory. Be careful you do not turn out to be the “indispensable person.” There’s almost a glory in being over-involved. People look at us like we’re plaster saints. They clamor that they need our prayers, as if we are the only ones who have God’s phone number. We must be very careful that this does not feed our ego. Who is interested in stoking our ego? It is not God; it is Satan.

11. Keep confidentiality. It is vital that you agree on the limits of the information you are acquiring from the hurting person. To repeat it to other people makes you recite the woes over and over. Set a limit.

12. Enlist a personal intercessor. Pray that the Lord will help you find a person who will back you in prayer when you are doing the work of ministry. Each active intercessor, each church worker, each pastor and teacher needs at least one personal intercessor. Like Moses at the battleground we need the help of Aaron and Hur. (Exodus 17:10-12)

You can be a blessing!

There is a tremendous blessing in being faithful and obedient to the Lord. You will be a blessing to others and you will bless yourself and build yourself up on your most holy faith.

Make a new beginning today. Repent and be converted. God will send times of refreshing and bring the restoration of all things. (Acts 3:19)

God will equip us
with everything good
for doing His will
and He will work in us
what is pleasing to Him,
through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory
for ever and ever.
(Hebrews 13:20-21)

By His grace we will avoid becoming overloaded. Praise the Lord!
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by Elaine Hardt ©1996.
(Dear friend Dolly recommends I share this with you today.)